About Aiello & DiFalco LLP
Dividing property during a divorce is about much more than putting numbers on a spreadsheet. The decisions you make now may affect where you live, what you have available for retirement, whether you retain an interest in a business, and what your finances look like years after the divorce.
At Aiello & DiFalco LLP, we help clients throughout Long Island approach equitable distribution with a clear understanding of both the law and what is personally at stake. We take the time to learn how you and your spouse built your financial life, where disagreements exist, and which assets matter most to your future.
Some cases begin with a house, savings accounts, and retirement benefits. Others involve closely held businesses, investment portfolios, stock options, restricted shares, multiple properties, or assets one spouse owned before the marriage. Whatever the financial picture looks like, we work to identify marital and separate property, obtain the necessary financial information, and determine where valuation or tracing issues require closer attention.
We also want to know what matters to you. Keeping the family home may be a priority. Preserving a business you spent years building may matter more than retaining other assets. Retirement security or protecting separate property might drive your strategy.
That is why our conversations often begin with practical questions:
- What property and financial assets do you and your spouse own?
- Which assets were acquired during the marriage?
- What property do you believe is separate?
- Is a business or professional practice involved?
- Do you have retirement accounts, investments, stock options, or restricted shares?
- What do you want your financial life to look like after divorce?
Whether your case is resolved through negotiation or litigation, Aiello & DiFalco LLP develops a strategy around your assets, priorities, and long-term financial goals. We help you understand what is on the table before making decisions that may follow you well beyond the divorce.
Services We Offer in Long Island
When you have spent years building a home, savings, investments, and other assets, deciding what happens to them in a divorce feels deeply personal. We help clients throughout Long Island understand what they own, what may be at risk, and how New York law applies. Our firm handles marital property division matters including:
Dividing property is often one of the most important parts of a Long Island divorce. New York’s equitable distribution rules determine how marital property is divided and address separate property in Long Island and other assets that may require careful classification or valuation.
Equitable distribution in Long Island requires identifying which assets belong to the marital estate and which qualify as separate property. We help clients divide assets in Long Island divorce matters involving homes, investments, bank accounts, business interests, personal property, and other valuable assets.
When a business or professional practice is part of the marital estate, determining its value can significantly affect property division. A business valuation attorney in Long Island can address ownership interests, financial records, income, and valuation methods, and coordinate appropriate business valuation services in Long Island when outside financial analysis is needed.
Property division in divorce involves more than deciding who keeps the house. We help clients understand Long Island divorce laws regarding property and divide assets in divorce, including real estate, financial accounts, investments, valuable personal property, debts, and other marital interests.
Retirement benefits accumulated during a marriage may represent a significant part of the marital estate. A Long Island dividing retirement assets in divorce lawyer can identify marital interests in pensions, 401(k)s, IRAs, and other plans and explain how New York law applies when dividing retirement assets.
Stock options, restricted shares, and other forms of equity compensation can raise difficult questions about classification, valuation, vesting, and future distribution. We help clients facing a divorce with investments understand how to split stocks in a divorce and how Long Island divorce laws on property division apply to equity compensation earned before or during the marriage.
Understanding Equitable Distribution in Long Island
New York follows equitable distribution when dividing marital property in a divorce. This does not mean every account, piece of real estate, or other asset is automatically divided 50/50. Instead, the court distributes marital property in a manner it determines is equitable after considering the circumstances of the marriage and the spouses.
Consider a Long Island couple married for 20 years. One spouse built a business during the marriage while the other spent several years caring for their children and managing the household. They also own a home, retirement accounts, and investments. Dividing every asset down the middle might not make financial or practical sense. One spouse might want to keep the business while the other values the home more or wants a larger share of other assets.
That is where the details of the marriage matter.
When determining equitable distribution, New York courts consider factors including:
- Each spouse’s income and property at the beginning of the marriage and when the divorce action began
- The length of the marriage and the spouses’ ages and health
- Spouses’ indirect contributions to acquiring marital property and to the other spouse’s career
- Each spouse’s future financial circumstances
- The liquidity of marital assets
- The difficulty of valuing a business or professional interest
- Tax consequences of the proposed distribution
- Wasteful dissipation or certain transfers of marital assets
New York law also permits courts to consider other factors they find proper.
At Aiello & DiFalco LLP, we look beyond the asset list. We want to understand how the property was acquired, what each spouse contributed, which assets matter most to you, and what different settlement options would mean for your life after divorce. An equitable distribution lawyer can then use that financial picture to pursue a resolution aligned with your circumstances and long-term priorities.
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Family law decisions can shape your finances, your relationship with your children, and your plans for years to come. Aiello & DiFalco LLP will help you understand your options and move forward with a strategy built around what matters to you.
Identifying Marital and Separate Property
Before you can divide property, you need to know what is part of the marital estate. Under New York law, marital property generally includes property acquired by either or both spouses during the marriage and before a separation agreement or the commencement of a matrimonial action, regardless of whose name appears on the title. Separate property includes specified categories, such as property acquired before marriage and certain inheritances or gifts from someone other than a spouse.
The distinction is not always as simple as looking at when an asset was acquired.

Suppose you owned a Long Island home before getting married. At the time of the wedding, you had substantial equity in the property. During a 15-year marriage, you used marital income to pay the mortgage and renovate the house. Your spouse also participated in improvements that increased its value. Your original purchase of the home does not necessarily answer every question about how the property or its appreciation will be treated in the divorce.
That is why we look at an asset’s history, not just what’s on a deed or account.
At Aiello & DiFalco LLP, we help clients identify and classify property involving:
- Real estate and bank accounts
- Investment and retirement accounts
- Business and professional interests
- Inheritances and gifts
- Valuable personal property
- Assets that appreciated during the marriage
Tracing becomes especially important when marital and separate funds have been mixed. For example, an inheritance deposited into a joint account may require bank records showing where the money went and whether it remained identifiable.
We work with clients to gather deeds, account statements, purchase records, tax documents, business records, and other evidence needed to reconstruct an asset’s history. When significant property is at stake, doing that work early can clarify what belongs in the marital estate and which separate property claims to preserve.
Negotiating a Long Island Divorce Property Settlement
A divorce does not necessarily require a judge to decide what happens to every asset you and your spouse own. A negotiated property settlement allows spouses to work out financial terms that reflect their priorities while still accounting for New York’s equitable distribution.
For example, consider a Long Island couple who owns a home with substantial equity, retirement accounts, and an investment portfolio. One spouse wants to remain in the home, while the other is more concerned about preserving retirement savings. Rather than selling the house and dividing every asset individually, the spouses might negotiate an arrangement that uses other marital property to offset the home’s value.
The numbers seemed to work. So does the agreement.
At Aiello & DiFalco LLP, we help clients understand what they are receiving, what they are giving up, and how a proposed settlement fits into the larger financial picture. Our work may include:
- Identifying and valuing marital assets
- Reviewing proposed property divisions
- Negotiating settlement terms and potential offsets
- Addressing relevant tax and financial consequences
- Protecting separate property interests
- Drafting and reviewing settlement agreements
We also look for issues that are easy to overlook. Two assets with the same value on paper may have different tax consequences, liquidity, or long-term financial value. A settlement involving a business, pension, stock options, or investment property may require additional analysis before you know whether the proposed tradeoff makes sense.
Not every property dispute can be resolved through negotiation. A spouse may refuse to provide financial information, dispute whether property is marital or separate, challenge a valuation, or reject reasonable settlement proposals.
When that happens, Aiello & DiFalco LLP is prepared to move the case forward through litigation. Our focus remains the same: understand what you have built, identify what is at stake, and pursue a property division that protects your financial interests.
How Our Equitable Distribution Process Works
Property division becomes easier when you know what comes next. At Aiello & DiFalco LLP, we give clients a structured path through equitable distribution while adapting our strategy to the assets, disputes, and financial priorities involved in each divorce.
- Initial consultation: We start with your financial picture. What do you own? What concerns you most? What property do you want to protect?
- Asset review: We identify real estate, investments, businesses, retirement accounts, valuable personal property, debts, and other financial interests.
- Classification: We examine when and how you acquired assets to determine which property may be marital and which may qualify as separate.
- Valuation: When an asset cannot be valued from an account statement or appraisal alone, we address whether additional financial analysis is appropriate.
- Negotiation: We evaluate possible tradeoffs and settlement terms with your priorities and long-term financial position in mind.
- Litigation: If disputes over classification, valuation, disclosure, or division cannot be resolved, we are prepared to present your position in court.
- Final resolution: A settlement or court order still needs to work in practice. We help make sure the final property division is properly documented and carried out.
From the first financial review through the final division of property, we keep you informed about where your case stands and what comes next.
Why Choose Aiello & DiFalco LLP?
The property you divide in a divorce represents years of work, saving, investing, and planning. At Aiello & DiFalco LLP, we never lose sight of the fact that decisions about a house, business, retirement account, or investment portfolio will affect your life long after you sign the divorce papers.
We provide:
- Experienced equitable distribution representation for clients throughout Long Island
- Comprehensive guidance involving marital and separate property
- Assistance with businesses, retirement accounts, stock options, restricted shares, and other complex assets
- Strategies built around your financial circumstances and priorities
- Clear guidance during settlement negotiations and litigation
Our approach starts with listening. We want to know which assets matter most to you, where you see potential problems, and what you hope your financial position will look like when the divorce is finished.
From there, we focus on the details. That may mean tracing separate property, examining financial records, addressing a disputed business valuation, or comparing settlement options before you agree to terms.
Property division is not simply about what you receive today. It can shape your financial security for years. Aiello & DiFalco LLP approaches equitable distribution with careful preparation, practical advice, and a strategy focused on protecting what you have built.
Contact Aiello & DiFalco LLP for Equitable Distribution Services
You worked hard to build your financial life. When divorce puts your home, savings, business, investments, or retirement at issue, you deserve to understand what is at stake before making decisions that could affect you for years.
At Aiello & DiFalco LLP, we help clients throughout Long Island take that next step with a clearer picture of their options. Whether you need assistance with asset and property division, business valuations, retirement accounts, stock options, separate property protection, or negotiating a divorce property settlement, we take the time to understand what matters most to you.
You do not have to sort through complicated financial questions on your own. We will review your circumstances, discuss your concerns, and explain how New York equitable distribution law applies to your property.
Call Aiello & DiFalco LLP today at (516) 474 1131 or complete our contact form to schedule a confidential consultation with a Long Island marital property division attorney