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When most people think about prenuptial agreements, they picture discussions about who owns what, how property will be divided, or what happens to a business if the marriage ends. But there’s another side of the financial conversation that often matters just as much—debt.
If you or your partner is entering a marriage with student loans, credit cards, business liabilities, or personal loans, it’s wise to address those issues upfront.
Why Debt Belongs in a Prenup
Debt can create serious challenges in a relationship, especially when it’s not clearly understood or accounted for from the beginning. A prenuptial agreement allows both partners to define how existing and future debt will be treated during the marriage and in the event of a divorce.
Without a prenup, New York’s equitable distribution laws may result in one spouse becoming partially responsible for the other’s debt, even if they had no hand in creating it. A carefully written prenup helps avoid that outcome.
Types of Debt to Address
Whether you’re entering the marriage with significant liabilities or just want to be cautious, your prenup should clearly outline which debts belong to whom and how any new debts will be handled. Common types of debt to include are:
- Student loans – Especially relevant for younger couples or those who pursued graduate school
- Credit card balances – Individual or joint accounts should be clearly identified
- Personal loans – Including family loans or private agreements
- Medical debt – Particularly if one spouse has ongoing treatment or unresolved bills
- Business debt – If one party owns or co-owns a business with outstanding obligations
Each of these should be discussed and properly disclosed before the agreement is signed.
Key Terms to Include in Your Prenup
When drafting a prenuptial agreement that addresses debt, we recommend including the following clauses:
- Separate vs. marital debt: Define which debts will remain the responsibility of each spouse and which, if any, will be shared.
- Debt disclosure statement: Both parties should fully disclose existing debts so the agreement reflects the complete financial picture.
- Responsibility for future debt: Outline how future debts incurred during the marriage—whether for home improvements, medical bills, or business investments—will be assigned or divided.
- Indemnification clauses: These protect one spouse from being held liable for the other’s debts in a divorce.
With clear language and mutual understanding, a prenup can act as a financial blueprint, not just a legal shield.
Communication Is Key
Debt can be a sensitive topic. It’s not always easy to talk about what you owe, especially if there’s embarrassment or stress involved. However, honesty upfront builds trust and helps avoid unpleasant surprises later.
We encourage couples to talk openly about their financial history and future goals early in the process. A prenup is not just a legal tool—it’s an opportunity to get on the same page about money before walking down the aisle.
How Aiello & DiFalco Can Help
At Aiello & DiFalco, we work with clients throughout New York to create customized prenuptial agreements that reflect both their current financial realities and long-term plans. When it comes to debt, we help you:
- Understand what debts need to be disclosed
- Determine what’s considered separate vs. marital under New York law
- Draft language that protects your financial interests
- Ensure that the agreement is fair, enforceable, and built on transparency
No two couples are the same, and your agreement should reflect your unique circumstances.
Take the First Step Toward Financial Clarity
Marriage is about partnership, and that includes understanding and planning for both assets and debts. If you or your partner is bringing debt into the relationship, a prenup can help you manage it together while protecting your rights.
Contact Aiello & DiFalco today to schedule a confidential consultation with a New York prenuptial agreement attorney. We’re here to help you prepare for the future with clarity and confidence.