A Private and Cooperative Alternative to Divorce Litigation
At Aiello & DiFalco, we guide clients through the mediation process with care and clarity. Our goal is to help couples understand their options and work toward resolutions that allow them to move forward with confidence.
- A collaborative, non-adversarial process
- Reduced stress, cost, and time compared to litigation
- Private discussions outside of the courtroom
- Flexible solutions tailored to each family’s needs
- Support for couples across Long Island and New York
What Is Mediation?
Mediation is a voluntary process in which a neutral third party helps spouses or parents resolve disputes through discussion and negotiation rather than court proceedings. The mediator facilitates communication but does not make decisions or provide legal advice.
Mediation is commonly used in divorce and family law matters to help parties reach mutually acceptable agreements that can later be submitted to the court for approval.
Issues That Can Be Resolved Through Mediation
Mediation can address a wide range of family law matters, including:
- Divorce and legal separation
- Child custody and parenting time
- Child support
- Spousal maintenance
- Division of marital property
- Modification of prior custody or support orders
- Prenuptial and postnuptial agreements
Not every case is suitable for mediation, but many families benefit from this approach when both parties are willing to participate in good faith.
Benefits of Mediation
Mediation offers several advantages over traditional litigation. Common benefits include:
- Faster resolution with fewer court appearances
- Lower overall costs due to reduced legal fees
- Confidential discussions that are not part of the public record
- Greater flexibility in crafting customized solutions
- Improved communication and cooperation
For families with children, mediation often supports healthier co-parenting relationships and helps reduce emotional strain.
How the Mediation Process Works in New York
Mediation typically involves a series of meetings between the parties and the mediator.
The process often includes:
- Identifying the issues to be resolved
- Exchanging necessary financial and personal information
- Discussing options for custody, support, and property division
- Working toward compromise and agreement
- Preparing a written agreement for court approval
Although mediation avoids litigation, any final agreement must be reviewed and approved by the court before it becomes legally binding.
The Role of Attorneys During Mediation
Mediators do not provide legal advice, and attorneys do not participate directly in mediation sessions. For this reason, many individuals consult with an attorney before and during the mediation process. An attorney can help by:
- Explaining legal rights and obligations
- Reviewing proposed agreements
- Identifying potential issues or risks
- Recommending revisions before finalization
Is Mediation Right for Your Situation?
Mediation is voluntary and requires both parties to participate willingly. It works best when there is open communication and a relatively balanced ability to negotiate. Mediation may be appropriate if:
- Both parties are willing to compromise
- There is no significant imbalance of power
- Financial information can be shared openly
If mediation is not suitable, other options such as collaborative divorce or litigation may be considered.
Contact Our Garden City Mediation Attorneys
Whether you are considering starting mediation or you are already involved in the process, our family law attorneys can help you make informed decisions about your future and your family. We look forward to speaking with you. Contact us now to speak with an attorney.
Aiello & DiFalco LLP serves clients in Garden City, Hicksville, Long Beach, Massapequa, Nassau County, Suffolk County, Long Island, Queens, Brooklyn, and New York City.