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When Is a Good Time to Create a Prenuptial Agreement?

By Michael DiFalco
Partner

Marriage is a major life step, and while the focus is often on love and commitment, it’s also important to think about practical matters like finances. A prenuptial agreement (or “prenup”) is a legal tool that can help protect both parties in the event of divorce. But when is the right time to create one? 

Before You Get Married

As the name implies, you should create a prenuptial agreement before marriage. This document can set clear expectations for financial matters, property division, and debts if the marriage ends in divorce. So it’s best to begin the conversation about a prenup well before the wedding date.

 Last-minute discussions about money can lead to unnecessary stress or misunderstandings. Starting the prenup process too close to the wedding can lead to one party feeling pressured to sign. Early discussions ensure both partners have time to review the terms and consult their attorneys if needed.

When You Have Significant Assets or Debts

A prenuptial agreement is particularly important if one or both parties have significant assets or debts. Whether you’ve built up savings, own property, or have a business, a prenup can clarify what belongs to whom in case of a divorce. If either partner has significant debt, a prenup can help protect the other spouse from becoming responsible for that debt in case of a divorce.

By addressing these financial matters before marriage, both parties can enter the relationship with peace of mind, knowing their personal assets and liabilities are clearly defined.

If You’re Getting Married Later in Life

For couples marrying later in life, particularly if they’ve been married before or have children from previous relationships, a prenuptial agreement can be essential. People in this situation often have more established careers, assets, or family responsibilities.

  • Children from Previous Relationships: A prenup can outline how assets will be handled to ensure children from previous relationships are provided for in the event of a divorce or death.
  • Retirement Accounts and Savings: Later in life, retirement accounts and savings may become more significant, and a prenup can help define how those will be treated in the marriage or divorce.

Early planning can help prevent conflicts later on and ensure that both partners’ financial futures are secure.

Before Major Life Changes

If you’re planning major life changes, such as starting a business, moving to a different state, or one spouse staying home to raise children, a prenuptial agreement can be a smart move. These changes can impact both partners’ financial stability, so it’s important to plan ahead.

  • Starting a Business: If you’re launching a business before or during your marriage, a prenup can protect your business from being divided in the event of a divorce.
  • Career Sacrifices: If one partner plans to make a career sacrifice, such as leaving a job to care for children, a prenup can outline how that spouse will be supported financially if the marriage ends.

By addressing these life changes in advance, a prenup can offer protection and clarity for both partners.

Anytime Both Partners Want Clarity and Peace of Mind

A prenup isn’t just about protecting assets. It’s also about providing clarity and peace of mind for both spouses. When both partners want to enter a marriage with a clear understanding of their financial responsibilities and rights, a prenup can help.

Creating a prenuptial agreement encourages open and honest discussions about finances before marriage. This level of communication can strengthen trust and help avoid future misunderstandings.

Ultimately, prenups protect both partners by setting expectations and preventing potential disputes down the road. This can make the marriage more stable and ensure that both spouses feel secure.

Get Started Today

The best time to create a prenuptial agreement is well before you get married, especially if you have significant assets or debts, are marrying later in life, or are facing significant life changes. If you’re considering a prenup, reach out to Aiello & DiFalco. Our experienced team can guide you through the process and help create an agreement tailored to your unique needs.

About the Author
I am a partner at Aiello & DiFalco LLP, and my priority for my clients is to guide them through an arduous court case to provide them with the opportunity to write the next chapter in their life. I tailor my approach to each client’s priorities and positions, and to the extent that matters can be predicted, I will always provide a realistic perspective of how the law could be applied to the particular facts and circumstances of a case. Since I thrive on helping people and solving problems, I bring an optimistic and positive approach to practicing in a very difficult area of law. With more than a decade of experience handling hundreds of cases, I have the ability to get results on the issues my clients view as priorities. When cases or certain issues cannot be settled, I have a solid record of success at trials, hearings, and on appeals. Feel free to contact me for a free initial consultation, I am always available to help.